Real Neat Blog Award! Gasp!

It is always a great feeling to be recognized by fellow bloggers for the work you put into your blog. Nessa over there at Just Being Nessa, thanks so much for recognizing me with this award. Please go on over to her blog and see what she’s up to guys. Right now she’s walking meContinue reading “Real Neat Blog Award! Gasp!”

The Exquisite Art of Hair Braiding!

No this isn’t a tutorial on hair braiding. I am actually a klutz when it comes to anything that has to do with hair. In fact,  I broke down heaven’s doors  in prayer asking for a son because Lord knows that ‘lil’ girl child would have been cursed with bad hair days for most ofContinue reading “The Exquisite Art of Hair Braiding!”

100 Followers, Soca Me Crazy…!!!!

So something really amazing happened today and if you haven’t guessed it yet, well, I hit 100 followers! Like holy hell yayyyyyy! First of all I want to thank everyone who has dared follow my blog! You guys are real MVPs!

Why couldn’t people be more like Panties?!

Has it ever occurred to you how reliably loyal panties are? I mean, anything willing to stay wedged between your ass (you thong and g-string wearers) all day long without fussing; even when things get foul, and the 8 hour shift just got pushed into a two hour overtime, is one loyal mofo, Brienne ofContinue reading “Why couldn’t people be more like Panties?!”

So Ladies, When Life Drives You Nuts and You Are Broke AF- Escape!!!

As If being a woman isn’t hard enough, life goes ahead and throws at you godawful things like work and kids and bills and men and every other thing you can possibly think of that effectively drains the life out of you. So what do I do when I want to de-stress?

Women go through a ton of Shit- ‘Imma’ blog about it!

I started blogging in June then actively started again in August; so a little over three months, inconsistency and 39 followers after, well 40 (apparently I’m following myself) I am here still a klutz at this trying to find my niche. 

Liebster Award Hoorayyyyyy!!!🤗🤗🤗

 Afiyah of When Life Awakens thank you once again for nominating me for this award. I could hardly contain my excitement when I saw my blog listed in your top five. Ohhhhh jeeezzzz, you are such a great ‘cheer leader’ I feel you rooting for me girl. Thank you so much. Please definitely check her outContinue reading “Liebster Award Hoorayyyyyy!!!🤗🤗🤗”

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