… So what does your being single have to do with me?

That’s what I asked him. He didn’t delay in telling me that he had said before he would be back for me so there he was. I was still taken aback by his seemingly cavalier ‘I’m so sure of myself’ behaviour. Here, this 6’2″ ‘ish’ structure of a man stood in front of me, his skin, light brown and supple, still showing its youth. His fat dimpled cheeks that seemed to have a life of their own when he would crack that plastic smile.

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