“Am I a shitty parent?”

How many of you when you were younger, and probably while being scolded by your parents swore, “when I become a parent I will be the best I can be. I will love my baby, provide everything he/she needs. I will never shout at or spank my kid; I will be their best friend!?” Continue reading ““Am I a shitty parent?””

Women Aren’t Pining Over Men Anymore

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way before, long after!

When I started this blog I envisioned kumbayah pity parties and even the formation of a cult; inviting membership from women all over the world who’d experienced a shitty relationship with a psychopathic, pathological lying asshole or any other brand of asshole.Continue reading “Women Aren’t Pining Over Men Anymore”

Woman to Woman.

I recently read about a woman in Pennsylvania who shot her husband’s ‘side-chick’ then killed herself (not the best thought out plan), leaving the man free from the hassle of divorce and any other associated drama that comes with messy situations such as these (no pun intended).

This kind of situation often opens an onslaught of hateful comments directed at the ‘side chick’. Did you miss this post? Take a look and let me know your thoughts in the comments below.

Otherwise, yes, yes, yes, I have been AWOL (shame on me) I will be back soon, life happened and it just kept happening and happening and happeninggggg! I will be back soon with fresh new content. Meantime, you can have a seat and catch up on posts you’ve missed. Have you been doing your kegels? Life getting in the way and can’t afford the fancy smancy spa… Escape and take a spa-cation at home!

My Vantage Point

Some time ago I became embroiled in a heated discussion on Facebook about relationships and cheating. It all started with a news article that said a woman killed her boyfriend’s ‘side-chick’ then killed herself.

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Blogiquette – 7 Simple Blogging Manners To Adhere By (Well, I think so, anyway!)

Great reminders here…have a gander!

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It’s very easy to become a little self-absorbed when you first start a blog.

  • You want to write things that people like.
  • You want followers.
  • You want to be discovered.
  • You want loads of comments and shares, to prove popularity.

Sure, there are blogs that manage to achieve that kind of fame and notoriety… but it’s not easy.

We all have to start somewhere, and like most of you will have been taught from birth, good manners count for a lot. In life, we have that etiquette to follow. We know about out pleases and thank yous. Respecting others. showing compassion and humility.

It’s the same in the Blogosphere.

Except here you have Blogiquette to learn.

It’s not much different to what you do in real life, but obviously, it’s via the interweb, so you need a few tweaks!

You don’t want to be known as the pompous one who…

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January and Broke!

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The dust has settled, the excitement of Christmas is over and despite all the December planning and budgeting for the longest month in the history of longest months; January has arrived and here you are pockets pulled out, broke and mourning the seemingly longest wait ever for payday!Continue reading “January and Broke!”

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